Breaking the Cycle: Learning to Set Boundaries While Co-Parenting

The Wake-Up Call Yesterday was a test—one of many I’ve been facing lately. For weeks now, I’ve been dealing with attempts to provoke me, to pull me back into old patterns of conflict and control. But I’ve discovered something powerful: the simple act of not reacting. It sounds almost too easy, doesn’t it? Just ignore…

The Tortoise Mindset: Finding Balance Between Motivation and Discipline

June 5, 2025 There’s something magical about those mornings when everything clicks. You wake up energized, ready to tackle the world, with plans that feel achievable and momentum that carries you forward effortlessly. Today was one of those days for me—fresh-squeezed juice in hand, breakfast ready for my daughter, and the excitement of her last…

From Shadow to Light: A Journey of Self-Acceptance and Inner Work

A reflection on taking responsibility, embracing our shadows, and finding liberation through conscious awareness This past week has been transformative in ways I’m still processing. Sometimes the most profound realizations come not from books or conversations, but from diving deep into the uncomfortable spaces within ourselves—those shadowy corners we’d rather avoid. The Mirror of Others…

When Weakness Feels Like Awakening: A Journey Back to Feeling

May 29, 2025 There are days when life feels like it’s systematically dismantling everything you thought you knew about your own strength. Today was one of those days. The Strange Territory of Feeling Again For the longest time, I existed in a kind of emotional numbness—a protective shell that kept me functional but disconnected. Now,…

The Strong Dad: Embracing Saunas for Health and Well-Being

As a dad, you’re constantly juggling work, family, and personal life, often putting your own health on the back burner. But maintaining your health and vitality is essential not only for yourself but for your family. One powerful way to support your physical and mental well-being is by using saunas. In this post, we’ll explore…

The Cool Dad: Embracing Ice Baths for Health and Well-Being

As a dad, balancing the demands of parenthood with personal health can feel like an endless juggling act. Between school runs, work commitments, and weekend activities, finding time for self-care often falls by the wayside. However, maintaining good health is crucial not just for yourself but for your family. One surprisingly effective method that can…

About Me

Hello, I am a California-born and raised single father. I am Doing my best to Stay in shape, work full-time, and raise a well-rounded experienced child. I am currently employed as an engineer at a tech giant, working the typical 9 to 5 or 6 am to 6 pm schedule. While my job is fulfilling,…